There's nothing wrong with showing off your good body, and it's not so bad when these words appear merely as an embellishment for something beautiful.

But when the large-scale "imitation card" appeared, these words have gradually begun to become labels, and become an implicit standard in social communication, causing anxiety in some people, at this time whether people have forgotten whether these standards are really desirable.

Especially female stars, before the hot search of the related words always take the shoulder, chest, waist and hip legs, even if the situation has improved, the topic is inseparable from the gaze of the body and appearance.

It is true that the management of the body and appearance of a celebrity is a professional requirement, but the message is widely disseminated and amplified into an underlying suggestion that this is how women should be.

In these standards also derived a large number of new rules, such as fitness, weight loss meals, body management is equal to self-discipline and other seemingly healthy life words, after excessive emphasis, and make it with the former "cartoon legs", "vest line" and other words.

The cycle goes on and on, and the body curls keep women in the public eye passively accepting new demands in a seemingly endless race.

The philosopher Han Byung-chul wrote in his book The Redemption of Beauty, "Today, the body is in a crisis. It's broken down into digital computer data. Today, the entire digital age is clouded by the belief that life can be measured and quantified. The quantified Self movement is also reveling in this belief."

As women, are we also in the sight of others, imperceptibly accepting this quantitative rule, marking our appearance one by one with precise numbers?

I believe that many girls have questioned their appearance, feel that they are not good-looking, and have made a lot of attempts on the appearance.

The environment around us is always defining what beauty is for us, constantly adding rules, but never telling us what the beauty we are chasing is.

We do not live in the camera, don't let those exquisite packaging behind the screen, become the shackles of our life.

Without beauty, retouching, and filters, we are really living life, which may not be perfect, but every moment is fresh.

Blogger Georgie Clarke has taken a series of comparison photos, and those "perfect photos" may also be behind the small stomach, orange skin lines, and flat butt.

The body is only a vessel for our spirit, not a shackle.

A plump body does not have to fit itself into a sexually insensitive aesthetic frame, and a naturally slender girl does not have to force herself to be boxy and crooked, just enjoy the way we were born.

More and more brands are also advocating multiple aesthetic, such as Savage X Fenty by Rihanna underwear show, a number of new and old supermodels support at the same time, there are a variety of body models to show together, they are the same confidence, but also extremely attractive.

The moment we know who we really are and accept our imperfections, we are a little closer to beauty.

Not to bow to the aesthetic of others, brave to be yourself, to firmly believe in yourself, in fact, is the first step in our pursuit of beauty.

In a video that went viral some time ago, famous TikTok model thewizardliz was mocked for not being thin enough during a shoot, and the photographer advised her not to eat before the shoot. And she directly back, she is thin enough, even if not slim, he is not qualified to teach her how to treat her body.

As Billie Eilish says --

"Some people scorn my clothes, others treasure them, some humiliate others, some humiliate me, but I know you are watching me, I feel your gaze, your disapproval, your sigh, and if I get caught up in it, I can't move."

Women need to learn to SAY NO to excessive aesthetic demands imposed on them.

When the aesthetic cycle frames women with local extreme standards, perhaps the ability to create a confident overall beauty is also the most powerful weapon for women to fight back.

Look at yourself, believe that you are beautiful, in fact, beauty is effortless.